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When Support Is Refused: Routes Families Explore

The general routes families explore after a refusal at any stage of the UK SEND system: reading the decision letter, informal discussion, local advice services, mediation and formal appeal routes in outline.

Published 24 October 2026Checked on 24 October 2026United Kingdom edition - general information only

The short answer

Refusals are a built in part of the SEND system: a local authority may decide not to carry out an EHC needs assessment, not to issue a plan after assessment, or not to make a change a family has asked for. Each decision arrives by letter, and the letter matters, because it sets out the decision, the reasons, and the routes open to the family, which usually include discussion with the authority, help from the local information and advice service, mediation, and, for many decisions, a formal appeal to an independent tribunal, each with deadlines. This guide describes those routes in general outline only. It is not legal advice and offers no view on any individual decision; official and charity sources below carry the detail.

Reading the decision letter closely

Decision letters follow a pattern worth learning. They state what was decided and when, summarise the information the authority relied on, give reasons, and set out what the family can do next and by when. Read it twice: once for the decision itself, and once with a pen, underlining every date, deadline, name and contact. Check whether the information listed matches what you sent; missing reports or an out of date school record are common discoveries at this stage, and they shape the conversation that follows. File the original safely and work from a copy. The habits in keeping records through the review year apply with extra force here, because dates in this part of the system carry consequences.

Discussion and local advice

Many disagreements move at the level of conversation before they reach any formal route. Families can contact the authority, often through the named officer on the letter, to discuss the reasons, ask what information would be relevant, and share anything the decision appears to have missed. The local SEND information, advice and support service, found through the Local Offer, explains the process to parents free of charge and impartially, and can help a family understand its options and paperwork. Parent carer forums and national charities such as IPSEA, listed below, publish plain English guides to each decision type. None of these conversations commit a family to anything; they exist so that any next step is taken with a clear picture.

Mediation, in outline

For many SEND decisions, families are asked to consider mediation before an appeal can be registered: a structured discussion with the authority, led by an independent mediator, aimed at resolving the disagreement without a hearing. The authority's letter and the local mediation provider explain how to arrange it and the timescales involved. Considering mediation usually involves obtaining a mediation certificate, whether or not a mediation meeting takes place, and that certificate forms part of the paperwork for an appeal. Because the steps and deadlines interact, families commonly take advice from SENDIASS or a charity helpline before choosing, so that no deadline is missed while discussions continue. Treat the dates in your own letter, not general descriptions like this one, as the ones that govern.

Formal appeal routes, in outline

Many, though not all, SEND decisions carry a right of appeal to the First-tier Tribunal, the independent body that hears SEND appeals in England. An appeal is a formal process with its own forms, evidence deadlines and hearing, at which the tribunal considers the case and issues a decision. Families prepare in different ways: some use charity guides and represent themselves, others seek specialist help, and local advice services can explain the shape of the process either way. This page deliberately stays at outline level: which decisions can be appealed, the current time limits, and what a hearing involves are matters for the official tribunal guidance and the advice services listed below, checked at the time, because procedures and forms are updated.

Steady, dated, and advised

Facing a refusal is steadier with three habits: work from the letter and its dates, keep every record in order, and use the free advice services that exist for exactly this moment rather than navigating alone. Whether a disagreement resolves in conversation, in mediation or through a formal route, those habits serve a family at every stage, and they cost nothing but a folder and a calendar.

Parent support, not medical advice. This guide is about household routines, organisation and communication, written in general terms for parents and carers. It does not diagnose, assess or treat any child, and it makes no promises about behaviour. For questions about your own child's health or development, your clinician or paediatrician is the right person to ask; for school decisions, talk to your child's school.

Sources and further reading

Evidence basis: School systems explainer. How the public process generally works, from the official sources below, checked on 24 October 2026; it is general information about a system, not advice about any individual child's case. Applies when: A letter refuses an assessment, a plan, or a requested change, and a parent wants the map of what exists

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